Our last day in this study has arrived. I hope it has been edifying to you and that you will continue to add the characteristics Peter mentions to your faith your whole life. It is absolutely a life-long battle, race, fight, adventure...
Today I want to focus on the ultimate example of love.
16 For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. 17 For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.
There are so many good principles in these two verses that we should apply to our lives.
1. Love acts. It sees a problem that can be fixed and does what it can to fix it.
2. Love is selfless. It gives whatever is needed without thought of reward.
3. Love has a purpose. It works to save others - not enable, but save.
4. Love is honest. To really see the problem, it has to be honest. No sugar-coatings here.
5. Love can cause the giver pain.
6. Love is based on what is real. This is related to being honest, but the honesty is based on God's Word, not feelings or culture or society's view of what is best.
I'd love for you to share any other insights you see here. When I stop to think about what love really is, I see a clearer picture of who God really is; and I am humbled and amazed at His essence. And this good God loves you and me. He is willing to do whatever it takes to save you and me from an awful destination except take away our free will. He not only loves us, but shows us how to love both Him and those around us. When this becomes our ultimate motivation, fuel, anchor, and focus it is no wonder that Peter says we will be guaranteed an entrance into heaven.
Your assignment for today:
Share a time when you experienced unconditional love from someone and tell how it affected you.
Friday, May 3, 2013
Thursday, May 2, 2013
May 2
Today let's think about some of the hard parts of love. Of course there is the aspect of doing what is best for a person you find annoying or who actually is an enemy. That can be hard. But today I'm thinking more of loving confrontation. For me this is a challenging thing.
15 “Moreover if your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone. If he hears you, you have gained your brother. 16 But if he will not hear, take with you one or two more, that ‘by the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established.’[b] 17 And if he refuses to hear them, tell it to the church. But if he refuses even to hear the church, let him be to you like a heathen and a tax collector. (Matthew 18)
Yep. There it is in black and white (or red in a red-letter edition). Part of love is confronting a brother or sister when they have wronged me. And if she won't repent, I can't stop there. I have to follow through with more confrontation.
Now why is that so hard for me? I think maybe because I don't love enough. It should never be a joyful thing, and maybe it should always be a little hard, but if my focus is on her good - on her eternal salvation - it would be easier. When my focus is on myself it is hard.
For some it is the opposite. BECAUSE their focus is on themselves, they are ready to fight to protect whatever rights they see as being threatened. For them another passage in the same chapter tempers their attitudes:
Assignment for today:
Give an example of what some call "tough love" and how you should deal with it. Apply the passages above.
15 “Moreover if your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone. If he hears you, you have gained your brother. 16 But if he will not hear, take with you one or two more, that ‘by the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established.’[b] 17 And if he refuses to hear them, tell it to the church. But if he refuses even to hear the church, let him be to you like a heathen and a tax collector. (Matthew 18)
Yep. There it is in black and white (or red in a red-letter edition). Part of love is confronting a brother or sister when they have wronged me. And if she won't repent, I can't stop there. I have to follow through with more confrontation.
Now why is that so hard for me? I think maybe because I don't love enough. It should never be a joyful thing, and maybe it should always be a little hard, but if my focus is on her good - on her eternal salvation - it would be easier. When my focus is on myself it is hard.
For some it is the opposite. BECAUSE their focus is on themselves, they are ready to fight to protect whatever rights they see as being threatened. For them another passage in the same chapter tempers their attitudes:
21 Then Peter came to Him and said, “Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? Up to seven times?”
22 Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.
Assignment for today:
Give an example of what some call "tough love" and how you should deal with it. Apply the passages above.
Wednesday, May 1, 2013
Wednesday, May 1
Today's assignment is simple. Think about the women in the Bible you have studied in the past. Choose one example of this kind of love in one of their lives. Share this with the group.
Tuesday, April 30, 2013
Tuesday, April 30
Yesterday I challenged you to tell us the difference between brotherly love and love as used in 2 Peter 1:7. Here is what I found.
We discussed brotherly love last week. It is a compound word in Greek - literally could be translated love of the brother, or brotherlove. The love part of the word used is the love that means affection. It's a love that comes from being family. In a sense it is kind of earned. Sort of. I love you because we are family. I like to be with you. I feel affection for you as a family member. Now if you did not have a great family, that might actually be a challenging concept, but I think you can understand the idea.
This week's "love" is a different kind of love. This week's love is a love that is not earned. Here are some comments from Vine:
Love can be known only from the actions it prompts. God's love is seen in the gift of His Son, 1 John 4:9, 10. But obviously this is not the love of complacency, or affection, that is, it was not drawn out by any excellency in its objects, Rom. 5:8. It was an exercise of the Divine will in deliberate choice, made without assignable cause save that which lies in the nature of God Himself, cp. Deut. 7:7,8....Christian love, whether exercised toward the brethren, or toward men generally, is not an impulse from the feelings, it does not always run with the natural inclinations, nor does it spend itself only upon those for whom some affinity is discovered. Love seeks the welfare of all, Rom. 15:2, and works no ill to any, 13:8-10; love seeks opportunity to do good to all men, and especially toward them that are of the household of the faith, Gal. 5:10.
So what does that look like in a woman's life? Read the following verses and think about this concept of love.
3 Wives, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands, that even if some do not obey the word, they, without a word, may be won by the conduct of their wives, 2 when they observe your chaste conduct accompanied by fear. 3 Do not let your adornment be merely outward—arranging the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel— 4 rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God. 5 For in this manner, in former times, the holy women who trusted in God also adorned themselves, being submissive to their own husbands, 6 as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, whose daughters you are if you do good and are not afraid with any terror.
I had a hard time choosing a woman in the Bible that exemplified this kind of love. No one does it perfectly, of course. But today I want to look at how this love looks in a married woman's life and extend that out to any woman's life. A married woman is to be like Sarah - submissive to her own husband, obeying him, giving him respect, and not being afraid. This can truly be an example of love when your husband is maybe not what he should be. Understand that I am not talking about an abusive or fornicating husband, but one who is just not perfect. The godly wife chooses to submit and respect him anyway. How can she do that? She understands what love means. She understands how God loves HER. She has a gentle and quiet spirit because of God's love, and she can reflect that on to those around her.
Now let's look at the whole context of this passage from the viewpoint of this kind of love. Why are wives told to be submissive? They can bring their husbands to obedience to God with this powerful attitude. That is love. Why is a gentle and quiet spirit so very precious in God's sight? Again, it brings others to God. It allows a woman to think with her head instead of just with her emotions. She can look at her situation, determine exactly what the problem is, and figure out just what biblical principle applies to solve it. She doesn't have to be afraid because she trusts in God and knows His love. Her tank doesn't run dry because she stays plugged in to her power source.
A woman who is not married does not have quite the same submission issues, although we all have to submit to someone. But still, that attitude of service and quietness does the same thing to those around her - brings them to God. I know a woman who was involved in some counseling with her husband for some addiction issues he was facing. When asked by the counselor what it meant when his wife said, "I love you," he thought and then truthfully responded that he did not know. He had never experienced unconditional love before he married her. He didn't understand why her family liked him. The counselor explained to the wife that at this point her husband was probably incapable of accepting and understanding God's love without her help. She had to be the example of unconditional love for him. Through her love, he could come to accept God's love. She had to stop saying, "I love you" for a time and start saying, "I like you." That was something he COULD understand. In time, with her patience and his continued study and effort, he did come to accept God's love for him and today is a faithful member of the Lord's family. Do you see what a powerful thing love is? Do you understand the influence you have? God can use your unconditional love to save souls. You become a picture of your Father to those who would otherwise not understand.
Your assignment for today:
1. Read 1 Corinthians 13. Make a list of what love looks like. I know you have probably done this at some point in the past, but do it again.
2. Have an interview prayer time with God about what you have read. Ask Him to show you the ways you can improve in your love for those around you and give you the strength you may need to do so.
3. Post "Done" when you have completed this assignment.
We discussed brotherly love last week. It is a compound word in Greek - literally could be translated love of the brother, or brotherlove. The love part of the word used is the love that means affection. It's a love that comes from being family. In a sense it is kind of earned. Sort of. I love you because we are family. I like to be with you. I feel affection for you as a family member. Now if you did not have a great family, that might actually be a challenging concept, but I think you can understand the idea.
This week's "love" is a different kind of love. This week's love is a love that is not earned. Here are some comments from Vine:
Love can be known only from the actions it prompts. God's love is seen in the gift of His Son, 1 John 4:9, 10. But obviously this is not the love of complacency, or affection, that is, it was not drawn out by any excellency in its objects, Rom. 5:8. It was an exercise of the Divine will in deliberate choice, made without assignable cause save that which lies in the nature of God Himself, cp. Deut. 7:7,8....Christian love, whether exercised toward the brethren, or toward men generally, is not an impulse from the feelings, it does not always run with the natural inclinations, nor does it spend itself only upon those for whom some affinity is discovered. Love seeks the welfare of all, Rom. 15:2, and works no ill to any, 13:8-10; love seeks opportunity to do good to all men, and especially toward them that are of the household of the faith, Gal. 5:10.
So what does that look like in a woman's life? Read the following verses and think about this concept of love.
3 Wives, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands, that even if some do not obey the word, they, without a word, may be won by the conduct of their wives, 2 when they observe your chaste conduct accompanied by fear. 3 Do not let your adornment be merely outward—arranging the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel— 4 rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God. 5 For in this manner, in former times, the holy women who trusted in God also adorned themselves, being submissive to their own husbands, 6 as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, whose daughters you are if you do good and are not afraid with any terror.
I had a hard time choosing a woman in the Bible that exemplified this kind of love. No one does it perfectly, of course. But today I want to look at how this love looks in a married woman's life and extend that out to any woman's life. A married woman is to be like Sarah - submissive to her own husband, obeying him, giving him respect, and not being afraid. This can truly be an example of love when your husband is maybe not what he should be. Understand that I am not talking about an abusive or fornicating husband, but one who is just not perfect. The godly wife chooses to submit and respect him anyway. How can she do that? She understands what love means. She understands how God loves HER. She has a gentle and quiet spirit because of God's love, and she can reflect that on to those around her.
Now let's look at the whole context of this passage from the viewpoint of this kind of love. Why are wives told to be submissive? They can bring their husbands to obedience to God with this powerful attitude. That is love. Why is a gentle and quiet spirit so very precious in God's sight? Again, it brings others to God. It allows a woman to think with her head instead of just with her emotions. She can look at her situation, determine exactly what the problem is, and figure out just what biblical principle applies to solve it. She doesn't have to be afraid because she trusts in God and knows His love. Her tank doesn't run dry because she stays plugged in to her power source.
A woman who is not married does not have quite the same submission issues, although we all have to submit to someone. But still, that attitude of service and quietness does the same thing to those around her - brings them to God. I know a woman who was involved in some counseling with her husband for some addiction issues he was facing. When asked by the counselor what it meant when his wife said, "I love you," he thought and then truthfully responded that he did not know. He had never experienced unconditional love before he married her. He didn't understand why her family liked him. The counselor explained to the wife that at this point her husband was probably incapable of accepting and understanding God's love without her help. She had to be the example of unconditional love for him. Through her love, he could come to accept God's love. She had to stop saying, "I love you" for a time and start saying, "I like you." That was something he COULD understand. In time, with her patience and his continued study and effort, he did come to accept God's love for him and today is a faithful member of the Lord's family. Do you see what a powerful thing love is? Do you understand the influence you have? God can use your unconditional love to save souls. You become a picture of your Father to those who would otherwise not understand.
Your assignment for today:
1. Read 1 Corinthians 13. Make a list of what love looks like. I know you have probably done this at some point in the past, but do it again.
2. Have an interview prayer time with God about what you have read. Ask Him to show you the ways you can improve in your love for those around you and give you the strength you may need to do so.
3. Post "Done" when you have completed this assignment.
Monday, April 29, 2013
Monday, April 29
This is our last week in this study. I hope you have been edified by the time you spent here.
Love. This is the goal of all our diligence - to love as God loves, to love as God is. Just what is this kind of love?
Today's assignment:
Find a definition of the word translated "love" in this 2 Peter 1.
Explain how it is different from "brotherly kindness."
Love. This is the goal of all our diligence - to love as God loves, to love as God is. Just what is this kind of love?
Today's assignment:
Find a definition of the word translated "love" in this 2 Peter 1.
Explain how it is different from "brotherly kindness."
Friday, April 26, 2013
Friday, April 26
Welcome back to Ann! It's nice to have your comments again. :)
As we wrap up our week on brotherly love, let's spend our time today thinking about what it looks like. I loved the list Ann posted of good works she can do. They are things we can all do, don't require a lot of money, and can make a huge difference in someone's life. Actually, if only a few do the things on Ann's list a whole congregation can be changed because these things build trust and relationships. Do you sometimes feel like since you are only one person you cannot possibly make a difference? That's a lie Satan uses on us all. Don't believe it.
In my little home school my granddaughter has been studying about Gideon. One of the questions she had to answer was, "Why do you think God chose Gideon?" Gideon asked the same question:
After some discussion we decided He probably chose Gideon just because he was the least in his father's house who was in the weakest clan. No one would question who was the one saving Israel. Weak, fearful Gideon with only 300 men would never be able to do what they did without God's help.
God has probably not asked you to save a nation by attacking a huge army with only 300 men, but He has asked you to develop and show brotherly love which may just save a soul. And He has asked you to do it diligently and to grow in it. Jesus gives us a key to how to do this when He says, "Love your neighbor as yourself." First you have to learn to love yourself as God does. Studying will bring you to a realization of just how much God does love you - even though you are sometimes unlovable and cranky. Accepting that love will then give you the courage and ability to reflect that love to those around you. When someone is irritating or acting ugly you can learn to look past the actions to the precious soul and love them anyway - just as God loves you.
Assignment for today:
Read 1 Corinthians 13 and spend some time reflecting on how you can apply this in your relationship (or lack of it) with a difficult person in your life. Share any insights you think might help the rest of us.
As we wrap up our week on brotherly love, let's spend our time today thinking about what it looks like. I loved the list Ann posted of good works she can do. They are things we can all do, don't require a lot of money, and can make a huge difference in someone's life. Actually, if only a few do the things on Ann's list a whole congregation can be changed because these things build trust and relationships. Do you sometimes feel like since you are only one person you cannot possibly make a difference? That's a lie Satan uses on us all. Don't believe it.
In my little home school my granddaughter has been studying about Gideon. One of the questions she had to answer was, "Why do you think God chose Gideon?" Gideon asked the same question:
15 So he said to Him, “O my Lord,[b] how can I save Israel? Indeed my clan is the weakest in Manasseh, and I am the least in my father’s house.”
16 And the Lord said to him, “Surely I will be with you, and you shall defeat the Midianites as one man.”
After some discussion we decided He probably chose Gideon just because he was the least in his father's house who was in the weakest clan. No one would question who was the one saving Israel. Weak, fearful Gideon with only 300 men would never be able to do what they did without God's help.
God has probably not asked you to save a nation by attacking a huge army with only 300 men, but He has asked you to develop and show brotherly love which may just save a soul. And He has asked you to do it diligently and to grow in it. Jesus gives us a key to how to do this when He says, "Love your neighbor as yourself." First you have to learn to love yourself as God does. Studying will bring you to a realization of just how much God does love you - even though you are sometimes unlovable and cranky. Accepting that love will then give you the courage and ability to reflect that love to those around you. When someone is irritating or acting ugly you can learn to look past the actions to the precious soul and love them anyway - just as God loves you.
Assignment for today:
Read 1 Corinthians 13 and spend some time reflecting on how you can apply this in your relationship (or lack of it) with a difficult person in your life. Share any insights you think might help the rest of us.
Thursday, April 25, 2013
Thursday, April 25
There are four passages in the New Testament that use the term "brotherly love" in the New King James Version. One of them is the passage we have been studying. The other three are:
Let brotherly love continue. 2 Do not forget to entertain strangers, for by so doing some have unwittingly entertained angels. 3 Remember the prisoners as if chained with them—those who are mistreated—since you yourselves are in the body also. Hebrews 13
9 Let love be without hypocrisy. Abhor what is evil. Cling to what is good. 10 Be kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love, in honor giving preference to one another;11 not lagging in diligence, fervent in spirit, serving the Lord; Romans 12
9 But concerning brotherly love you have no need that I should write to you, for you yourselves are taught by God to love one another; 10 and indeed you do so toward all the brethren who are in all Macedonia. But we urge you, brethren, that you increase more and more; 1 Thessalonians 4
Here are some things I notice from these passages:
Hebrews 13: It is on-going. It's not a one-time event. It involves service and involves putting yourself in the other person's place so you can know what to do to help them.
Romans 12: It involves actually liking each other, letting others have their way whenever possible, takes diligence (sound familiar?), and is how we serve the Lord.
1 Thessalonians 4: God teaches us to have it. It is wider than just the members of my local congregation. It is something that should always be increasing in my life.
Assignment for today:
Tell us how you can like someone who annoys you (Romans 12:10).
Let brotherly love continue. 2 Do not forget to entertain strangers, for by so doing some have unwittingly entertained angels. 3 Remember the prisoners as if chained with them—those who are mistreated—since you yourselves are in the body also. Hebrews 13
9 Let love be without hypocrisy. Abhor what is evil. Cling to what is good. 10 Be kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love, in honor giving preference to one another;11 not lagging in diligence, fervent in spirit, serving the Lord; Romans 12
9 But concerning brotherly love you have no need that I should write to you, for you yourselves are taught by God to love one another; 10 and indeed you do so toward all the brethren who are in all Macedonia. But we urge you, brethren, that you increase more and more; 1 Thessalonians 4
Here are some things I notice from these passages:
Hebrews 13: It is on-going. It's not a one-time event. It involves service and involves putting yourself in the other person's place so you can know what to do to help them.
Romans 12: It involves actually liking each other, letting others have their way whenever possible, takes diligence (sound familiar?), and is how we serve the Lord.
1 Thessalonians 4: God teaches us to have it. It is wider than just the members of my local congregation. It is something that should always be increasing in my life.
Assignment for today:
Tell us how you can like someone who annoys you (Romans 12:10).
Wednesday, April 24, 2013
Wednesday, April 24
Today let's take a moment to consider a type of woman who is mentioned in the New Testament - the widow indeed. Now this is an older woman, which of course, none of us consider ourselves to be just yet. She has lived her life in service to others. She has lived brotherly kindness.
9 Do not let a widow under sixty years old be taken into the number, and not unless she has been the wife of one man, 10 well reported for good works: if she has brought up children, if she has lodged strangers, if she has washed the saints’ feet, if she has relieved the afflicted, if she has diligently followed every good work. 1 Timothy 5
Notice that she has a reputation for doing good works because she diligently follows them. This seems to indicate a focus on finding some kind of good work to do regularly. Some of her works are specifically mentioned: being a wife, bringing up children, lodging strangers, serving the saints, relieving the afflicted... These are all acts of service. A good work is not necessarily some great deed for which you will be lauded by all. It is often just a little kindness that makes someone's load a little easier to bear.
A non-biblical example of such a woman in my own congregation is a single woman named Barbara. She is always on the lookout for something someone might need as she shops. Clothes, toys, food...she provides all kinds of things for the people in the congregation. One day she even showed up at my house to help me paint the back fence and weed the garden. Barbara is never in the limelight but always working. What a great example of brotherly kindness!
Today's assignment:
1. Take a few minutes to do a word search on "good works."
2. Share a passage with us and comment on what you learned, found interesting, or can apply to your life.
9 Do not let a widow under sixty years old be taken into the number, and not unless she has been the wife of one man, 10 well reported for good works: if she has brought up children, if she has lodged strangers, if she has washed the saints’ feet, if she has relieved the afflicted, if she has diligently followed every good work. 1 Timothy 5
Notice that she has a reputation for doing good works because she diligently follows them. This seems to indicate a focus on finding some kind of good work to do regularly. Some of her works are specifically mentioned: being a wife, bringing up children, lodging strangers, serving the saints, relieving the afflicted... These are all acts of service. A good work is not necessarily some great deed for which you will be lauded by all. It is often just a little kindness that makes someone's load a little easier to bear.
A non-biblical example of such a woman in my own congregation is a single woman named Barbara. She is always on the lookout for something someone might need as she shops. Clothes, toys, food...she provides all kinds of things for the people in the congregation. One day she even showed up at my house to help me paint the back fence and weed the garden. Barbara is never in the limelight but always working. What a great example of brotherly kindness!
Today's assignment:
1. Take a few minutes to do a word search on "good works."
2. Share a passage with us and comment on what you learned, found interesting, or can apply to your life.
Tuesday, April 23, 2013
Tuesday, April 23
My example of a woman who showed brotherly love is Tabitha.
36 At Joppa there was a certain disciple named Tabitha, which is translated Dorcas. This woman was full of good works and charitable deeds which she did. 37 But it happened in those days that she became sick and died. When they had washed her, they laid her in an upper room. Acts 9
It doesn't say a whole lot about this woman. We don't know how old she was when she died or what she looked like. We don't even know if she was a Jew or Gentile. But we know she was beautiful. Her life was filled with brotherly love. How do we know that? Because of how she lived. Her life was full of good works and charitable deeds.
39 Then Peter arose and went with them. When he had come, they brought him to the upper room. And all the widows stood by him weeping, showing the tunics and garments which Dorcas had made while she was with them.
In her situation, those good deeds included making clothes for people. That was what they needed that she could provide.
Today's assignment:
1. Make a list of ways you have the ability to show brotherly love. List your talents/supplies.
2. Think of someone you can help with your particular abilities and do a good work.
36 At Joppa there was a certain disciple named Tabitha, which is translated Dorcas. This woman was full of good works and charitable deeds which she did. 37 But it happened in those days that she became sick and died. When they had washed her, they laid her in an upper room. Acts 9
It doesn't say a whole lot about this woman. We don't know how old she was when she died or what she looked like. We don't even know if she was a Jew or Gentile. But we know she was beautiful. Her life was filled with brotherly love. How do we know that? Because of how she lived. Her life was full of good works and charitable deeds.
39 Then Peter arose and went with them. When he had come, they brought him to the upper room. And all the widows stood by him weeping, showing the tunics and garments which Dorcas had made while she was with them.
In her situation, those good deeds included making clothes for people. That was what they needed that she could provide.
Today's assignment:
1. Make a list of ways you have the ability to show brotherly love. List your talents/supplies.
2. Think of someone you can help with your particular abilities and do a good work.
Monday, April 22, 2013
Monday, April 22
Welcome to another week in 2 Peter. This week we are looking at brotherly kindness - the trait listed after godliness. When you look at the traits and the order in which they are listed, it seems that as we progress on our spiritual journey we are continually growing closer to being who God meant us to be - in His image. God is love. At this point we have started with faith, added moral excellence, knowledge, self-control, perseverance, and godliness. As each of these traits continue to grow, we can't help but put on brotherly kindness. Just what is brotherly kindness? Thayer says it is "loving one like a brother." In this world of disfunctional families and broken homes, it may be difficult to know what that means. As always, the Bible gives us many examples of this trait.
Your assignment for today:
1. Choose a female character who showed (or did not show) brotherly love.
2. Tell us how she showed this character - what it looked like in her life situation.
Your assignment for today:
1. Choose a female character who showed (or did not show) brotherly love.
2. Tell us how she showed this character - what it looked like in her life situation.
Friday, April 19, 2013
Friday, April 19
As we wrap up our week on godliness, let's take a moment to think about this passage:
6 If you instruct the brethren in these things, you will be a good minister of Jesus Christ, nourished in the words of faith and of the good doctrine which you have carefully followed.7 But reject profane and old wives’ fables, and exercise yourself toward godliness. 8 For bodily exercise profits a little, but godliness is profitable for all things, having promise of the life that now is and of that which is to come. (1 Timothy 4)
There are a couple of things to notice about godliness in this passage. First, it takes rejecting profane and old wives' fables. That means we need to be always comparing what we are learning and seeing around us to what God says in His word - not how we feel or what we want. Women are created as emotional beings and our emotions, even though they are valuable when used correctly - can lead us the wrong way. We saw this with Eve. We must learn to think with our heads, not our hearts.
This can be especially difficult sometimes. That's where the second part comes in. We are to exercise ourselves to godliness. If you have ever been on a regular exercise program you know a couple of things. It is hard when you first start. It makes you sore. And tired. But if you continue it becomes easier. If it is a really good program, it will always make you a little sore and tired, but you come to enjoy not only the activity but even the soreness as you realize this means you are making progress. So it is with godliness. It is hard at first. It may not even feel right. Eve couldn't bring herself to say, "No, Mr. Snake, I don't believe you. Your argument is convincing and I want to do what you are suggesting, but I choose to trust God anyway." As we continue along in our "exercise program" adding godliness will become easier and will bring joy because it is profitable and has a promise of a good life now and in the life to come. In time we will begin to see that our life, even now, is so much better and easier than those who choose to follow Mr. Snake.
There will be times when we find an area that needs some work - a new muscle to exercise - and it will be hard again at first. But it's worth it! And you will probably find that all the previous "exercise" will make it easier to improve in this new area, too.
Your assignment for today:
1. Take a few minutes to do a brief word search on "godliness" in the New Testament. Comment on anything that stands out to you.
6 If you instruct the brethren in these things, you will be a good minister of Jesus Christ, nourished in the words of faith and of the good doctrine which you have carefully followed.7 But reject profane and old wives’ fables, and exercise yourself toward godliness. 8 For bodily exercise profits a little, but godliness is profitable for all things, having promise of the life that now is and of that which is to come. (1 Timothy 4)
There are a couple of things to notice about godliness in this passage. First, it takes rejecting profane and old wives' fables. That means we need to be always comparing what we are learning and seeing around us to what God says in His word - not how we feel or what we want. Women are created as emotional beings and our emotions, even though they are valuable when used correctly - can lead us the wrong way. We saw this with Eve. We must learn to think with our heads, not our hearts.
This can be especially difficult sometimes. That's where the second part comes in. We are to exercise ourselves to godliness. If you have ever been on a regular exercise program you know a couple of things. It is hard when you first start. It makes you sore. And tired. But if you continue it becomes easier. If it is a really good program, it will always make you a little sore and tired, but you come to enjoy not only the activity but even the soreness as you realize this means you are making progress. So it is with godliness. It is hard at first. It may not even feel right. Eve couldn't bring herself to say, "No, Mr. Snake, I don't believe you. Your argument is convincing and I want to do what you are suggesting, but I choose to trust God anyway." As we continue along in our "exercise program" adding godliness will become easier and will bring joy because it is profitable and has a promise of a good life now and in the life to come. In time we will begin to see that our life, even now, is so much better and easier than those who choose to follow Mr. Snake.
There will be times when we find an area that needs some work - a new muscle to exercise - and it will be hard again at first. But it's worth it! And you will probably find that all the previous "exercise" will make it easier to improve in this new area, too.
Your assignment for today:
1. Take a few minutes to do a brief word search on "godliness" in the New Testament. Comment on anything that stands out to you.
Thursday, April 18, 2013
Thursday, April 18
Today let's take a few moments to think about Eve. I don't think any of us think of her as a grossly immoral woman. We don't know how long she lived before her conversation with Satan. At the beginning of that conversation she showed godliness. She knew God's command about what should or shouldn't be eaten in the garden and faithfully repeated it to Satan when he twisted it. But what happened next is a common mistake that women make - she let herself be deceived.
13 For Adam was formed first, then Eve. 14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression. (I Timothy 2)
She lost her godliness - respect toward God - and gave it to the serpent instead. As women, one of the things we really hate is looking dumb. Satan worded his temptation so that she looked dumb for believing God's promise.
When we sin like Eve sinned, we don't take the time to analyze what we are actually doing. We are actually stating that God is a liar - or at the very least can't be trusted. When God has told us we are to live and think a certain way and we know it because we have added knowledge to our faith, we must add godliness and respect His word. We obey even when we don't see how it can possibly work out for us because we know we can trust Him. I can understand why God was so angry with Eve. Adam, it seems, was not deceived. He just did it because he wanted to for some reason. Eve actually believed God had lied. She trusted Satan more than God.
What has God said about your role in your life situation? Are you married, single, widowed, unmarried? Do you have children or grandchildren? How do you show godliness in your situation?
I am a married woman with grown children. According to Titus 2 that makes me an "older woman." Here is what Paul told Titus about women in my situation:
3 the older women likewise, that they be reverent in behavior, not slanderers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things— 4 that they admonish the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, 5 to be discreet, chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be blasphemed.
I admit I find this a bit challenging. I don't particularly enjoy admonishing so it's easy for me to convince myself it's not the right time, or they don't want my advice, or maybe I should study a bit more before I say anything, or maybe I should get that beam out of my own eye... You see how it goes. But if I am to be godly, I must respect what God says and admonish anyway. Of course I need to apply other principles about how I should talk in my admonishment because that also is showing respect to God. This blog is one way I try to show godliness. I still have a lot of growing to do in this area.
Today's assignment:
Find at least one passage that tells what you should be doing in your situation. It can be a command or an example. How will you apply this to your life?
13 For Adam was formed first, then Eve. 14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression. (I Timothy 2)
She lost her godliness - respect toward God - and gave it to the serpent instead. As women, one of the things we really hate is looking dumb. Satan worded his temptation so that she looked dumb for believing God's promise.
When we sin like Eve sinned, we don't take the time to analyze what we are actually doing. We are actually stating that God is a liar - or at the very least can't be trusted. When God has told us we are to live and think a certain way and we know it because we have added knowledge to our faith, we must add godliness and respect His word. We obey even when we don't see how it can possibly work out for us because we know we can trust Him. I can understand why God was so angry with Eve. Adam, it seems, was not deceived. He just did it because he wanted to for some reason. Eve actually believed God had lied. She trusted Satan more than God.
What has God said about your role in your life situation? Are you married, single, widowed, unmarried? Do you have children or grandchildren? How do you show godliness in your situation?
I am a married woman with grown children. According to Titus 2 that makes me an "older woman." Here is what Paul told Titus about women in my situation:
3 the older women likewise, that they be reverent in behavior, not slanderers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things— 4 that they admonish the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, 5 to be discreet, chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be blasphemed.
I admit I find this a bit challenging. I don't particularly enjoy admonishing so it's easy for me to convince myself it's not the right time, or they don't want my advice, or maybe I should study a bit more before I say anything, or maybe I should get that beam out of my own eye... You see how it goes. But if I am to be godly, I must respect what God says and admonish anyway. Of course I need to apply other principles about how I should talk in my admonishment because that also is showing respect to God. This blog is one way I try to show godliness. I still have a lot of growing to do in this area.
Today's assignment:
Find at least one passage that tells what you should be doing in your situation. It can be a command or an example. How will you apply this to your life?
Wednesday, April 17, 2013
Wednesday, April 17
For today's discussion I have chosen the following passage:
8 I desire therefore that the men pray everywhere, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting; 9 in like manner also, that the women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with propriety and moderation, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or costly clothing, 10 but, which is proper for women professing godliness, with good works. 11 Let a woman learn in silence with all submission. 12 And I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence. 13 For Adam was formed first, then Eve. 14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression. 15 Nevertheless she will be saved in childbearing if they continue in faith, love, and holiness, with self-control. (1 Timothy 2)
The first thing that jumps out to me about a woman being godly is that she adorns herself with good works. So that means that if we have respect toward God, we are busy doing what we can. Not everything that we might think is a good work is a good work for a woman. In this passage we see things that ARE good works for a woman, and that are NOT good works for a woman Most importantly, we see an attitude that lies behind what a woman professing godliness has.
Your assignment for today:
1. List the things a woman professing godliness does and does not do.
2. Describe the attitude this woman has.
8 I desire therefore that the men pray everywhere, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting; 9 in like manner also, that the women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with propriety and moderation, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or costly clothing, 10 but, which is proper for women professing godliness, with good works. 11 Let a woman learn in silence with all submission. 12 And I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence. 13 For Adam was formed first, then Eve. 14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression. 15 Nevertheless she will be saved in childbearing if they continue in faith, love, and holiness, with self-control. (1 Timothy 2)
The first thing that jumps out to me about a woman being godly is that she adorns herself with good works. So that means that if we have respect toward God, we are busy doing what we can. Not everything that we might think is a good work is a good work for a woman. In this passage we see things that ARE good works for a woman, and that are NOT good works for a woman Most importantly, we see an attitude that lies behind what a woman professing godliness has.
Your assignment for today:
1. List the things a woman professing godliness does and does not do.
2. Describe the attitude this woman has.
Tuesday, April 16, 2013
Tuesday, April 16
What is godliness as used in 2 Peter? Strong's online concordance defines it as reverence or respect; piety towards God. I used to think it meant being like God, but that is a result of godliness. First comes the respect and reverence toward Him.
Deborah exemplifies this trait. First we are told she is someone's wife. That means she has certain responsibilities she must meet as a godly woman. That is probably why Israel comes to her instead of her going to them as other judges did. We are told she is a prophetess. She speaks for God. When we read of when she does this, we see no indication of pride in herself but faithfulness in delivering the message. She respects God by staying in her position not only as a wife, but as a prophet. She believes what God tells her will happen - complete trust. That's a great sign of respect. In her song she praises God for the victory, again giving Him the reverence He is due.
From Deborah's example we learn how a married woman can lead from a position of submission. As women we sometimes struggle with the idea of submission, mostly because we misunderstand what it means. Deborah remained subject to her wifely duties. She kept her priorities straight when called to do something probably a bit more exciting than laundry and dishes. This is respect towards God, because it is He who has given us our sphere of work and influence. God wanted Barak to lead his armies. Deborah was happy to let him - not only let him, but insist he do so. Here again we see Deborah operating within her realm of submission.
I have a tendency to think of only worship in our assemblies as a time of respect or reverence for God. This is not quite accurate. My whole life, and yours, should be lived in respect for Him.
Today's assignment:
1. List two areas in your life as a woman in which you can show respect for God outside of the worship service on Sundays.
2. Prove these are actually areas of respect by giving a passage that shows what God has commanded in this area.
Deborah exemplifies this trait. First we are told she is someone's wife. That means she has certain responsibilities she must meet as a godly woman. That is probably why Israel comes to her instead of her going to them as other judges did. We are told she is a prophetess. She speaks for God. When we read of when she does this, we see no indication of pride in herself but faithfulness in delivering the message. She respects God by staying in her position not only as a wife, but as a prophet. She believes what God tells her will happen - complete trust. That's a great sign of respect. In her song she praises God for the victory, again giving Him the reverence He is due.
From Deborah's example we learn how a married woman can lead from a position of submission. As women we sometimes struggle with the idea of submission, mostly because we misunderstand what it means. Deborah remained subject to her wifely duties. She kept her priorities straight when called to do something probably a bit more exciting than laundry and dishes. This is respect towards God, because it is He who has given us our sphere of work and influence. God wanted Barak to lead his armies. Deborah was happy to let him - not only let him, but insist he do so. Here again we see Deborah operating within her realm of submission.
I have a tendency to think of only worship in our assemblies as a time of respect or reverence for God. This is not quite accurate. My whole life, and yours, should be lived in respect for Him.
Today's assignment:
1. List two areas in your life as a woman in which you can show respect for God outside of the worship service on Sundays.
2. Prove these are actually areas of respect by giving a passage that shows what God has commanded in this area.
Monday, April 15, 2013
Monday, April 15
As we continue on to make our call and election sure, we come to godliness. Godliness is not the same thing as virtue or moral excellence; however, godliness will lead to these virtues.
Our example for this week is Deborah. She is a married woman. We do not know if she has children. She is also a leader in Israel. You can find the account of Deborah in Judges 4-5.
Your assignment for today:
1. Find the definition of the word "godliness." I prefer you use a Strong's Concordance or similar book for this one. Our use today is slightly different from the biblical meaning.
2. Read the account of Deborah and notice two ways in which she shows godliness.
Our example for this week is Deborah. She is a married woman. We do not know if she has children. She is also a leader in Israel. You can find the account of Deborah in Judges 4-5.
Your assignment for today:
1. Find the definition of the word "godliness." I prefer you use a Strong's Concordance or similar book for this one. Our use today is slightly different from the biblical meaning.
2. Read the account of Deborah and notice two ways in which she shows godliness.
Friday, April 12, 2013
Friday, April 12
As I sit thinking about women in the Bible who showed great perseverance, I think of Mary. Before being chosen by God to give birth to His Son, Mary was already an example of a godly woman. Probably as a young teenager she had to face the displeasure of her espoused and society in general when she became pregnant by the Holy Spirit. I mean, who would believe such a thing? Then traveling to Bethlehem while nine months pregnant couldn't have been much fun. Giving birth in a stable was something she certainly hadn't planned on. The warning that this beloved child would be the cause of her broken heart was something she lived with for thirty years. It appears something happened to Joseph, her husband, before Jesus' death because Jesus gave her into the care of John as she watched Him dying one of the most painful deaths imaginable. Have you ever thought about the fact that when God chooses you for great responsibility it comes with great pain? That was Mary's life. God counted on her to endure and with His help she did.
God counts on you to endure also. Your situation will most definitely be different than Mary's, but you will have to endure. Maybe your children will not choose to follow God. Or your husband will choose to leave you. Or you might develop a chronic health condition. Or have to live in poverty. Some of the pain we have to endure is because of bad choices. Some of it is from the devil. The important thing is that we must continue to endure. Think about the following passages:
9 And let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart. Gal. 6
We have a precious hope which we will receive if we endure - don't lose heart, choose to keep doing good. No matter what. Even when we don't want to any more.
23 Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for He who promised is faithful. 24 And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works, 25 not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching. Hebrews 10
Why should we endure? Because God is faithful and He will keep His promise. How can we endure? Surround ourselves with others who share our hope. Talk about our hope. Dream about our hope. Encourage others to stay strong and do what is right.
Our confidence has great reward when we hold on with endurance until the end. You can do this with God's help.
My prayer for you is that you will keep your eyes on Jesus - "consider Him" - especially when you are called to endure. He was able to endure "for the joy that was set before Him." You can do the same. Remember the joy set before us: eternity with a loving and good Father Who wipes away every tear, a place that is "very far better."
Keep on keeping on.
God counts on you to endure also. Your situation will most definitely be different than Mary's, but you will have to endure. Maybe your children will not choose to follow God. Or your husband will choose to leave you. Or you might develop a chronic health condition. Or have to live in poverty. Some of the pain we have to endure is because of bad choices. Some of it is from the devil. The important thing is that we must continue to endure. Think about the following passages:
9 And let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart. Gal. 6
We have a precious hope which we will receive if we endure - don't lose heart, choose to keep doing good. No matter what. Even when we don't want to any more.
23 Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for He who promised is faithful. 24 And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works, 25 not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching. Hebrews 10
Why should we endure? Because God is faithful and He will keep His promise. How can we endure? Surround ourselves with others who share our hope. Talk about our hope. Dream about our hope. Encourage others to stay strong and do what is right.
35 Therefore do not cast away your confidence, which has great reward. 36 For you have need of endurance, so that after you have done the will of God, you may receive the promise:
39 But we are not of those who draw back to perdition, but of those who believe to the saving of the soul.
Our confidence has great reward when we hold on with endurance until the end. You can do this with God's help.
12 Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, 2 looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.
3 For consider Him who endured such hostility from sinners against Himself, lest you become weary and discouraged in your souls. 4 You have not yet resisted to bloodshed, striving against sin. 5 And you have forgotten the exhortation which speaks to you as to sons:
“My son, do not despise the chastening of the Lord,
Nor be discouraged when you are rebuked by Him;
6 For whom the Lord loves He chastens,
And scourges every son whom He receives.”[a]
Nor be discouraged when you are rebuked by Him;
6 For whom the Lord loves He chastens,
And scourges every son whom He receives.”[a]
7 If[b] you endure chastening, God deals with you as with sons; for what son is there whom a father does not chasten? 8 But if you are without chastening, of which all have become partakers, then you are illegitimate and not sons. 9 Furthermore, we have had human fathers who corrected us, and we paid them respect. Shall we not much more readily be in subjection to the Father of spirits and live? 10 For they indeed for a few days chastened us as seemed best to them, but He for our profit, that we may be partakers of His holiness.11 Now no chastening seems to be joyful for the present, but painful; nevertheless, afterward it yields the peaceable fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.
12 Therefore strengthen the hands which hang down, and the feeble knees, 13 and make straight paths for your feet, so that what is lame may not be dislocated, but rather be healed.
My prayer for you is that you will keep your eyes on Jesus - "consider Him" - especially when you are called to endure. He was able to endure "for the joy that was set before Him." You can do the same. Remember the joy set before us: eternity with a loving and good Father Who wipes away every tear, a place that is "very far better."
Keep on keeping on.
Thursday, April 11, 2013
Thursday, April 11
What does perseverance look like? What are things that help us develop this trait? Here are some examples:
dealing with depression
standing for the right when all your friends do not
attending assembly even when your young children keep you from being able to concentrate on the lesson
working with a good attitude in a bad work situation
doing what you can even when you are dealing with health issues
being godly when your spouse is not
keeping study and prayer a priority
fighting addictions
keeping your tone and attitude right with difficult children
smiling when you are tired and/or hungry
dealing with people in difficult ongoing situations
being godly with annoying family members
Now we don't normally look at these things as blessings, but we have seen that trials are what help us develop this important characteristic. It's all in how you look at it. And looking at it the godly way will also help you deal with the trials.
Today's assignment:
1. Choose a Bible character who had to endure a trial. Read about him/her looking for ways he/she dealt with the situation and overcame. Share your results.
dealing with depression
standing for the right when all your friends do not
attending assembly even when your young children keep you from being able to concentrate on the lesson
working with a good attitude in a bad work situation
doing what you can even when you are dealing with health issues
being godly when your spouse is not
keeping study and prayer a priority
fighting addictions
keeping your tone and attitude right with difficult children
smiling when you are tired and/or hungry
dealing with people in difficult ongoing situations
being godly with annoying family members
Now we don't normally look at these things as blessings, but we have seen that trials are what help us develop this important characteristic. It's all in how you look at it. And looking at it the godly way will also help you deal with the trials.
Today's assignment:
1. Choose a Bible character who had to endure a trial. Read about him/her looking for ways he/she dealt with the situation and overcame. Share your results.
Wednesday, April 10, 2013
Wednesday, April 10
Women in different seasons of life face different challenges. All need to persevere to reach the goal.
3 And not only that, but we also glory in tribulations, knowing that tribulation produces perseverance; 4 and perseverance, character; and character, hope. 5 Now hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us. Roman 5
This passage shows us how to develop perseverance. It isn't easy, but that should be expected from the definition of the word. We only know we can persevere when we actually do it - walk with God through tribulations and endure. Unfortunately, from our point of view, that means we need tribulation to develop that character. If we look at it that way, then we can understand and agree when James says,
2 My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, 3 knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. 4 But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing.
Today's assignment:
1. Look at your own life situation and define the tribulations you face. List them on a piece of paper and ask God to give you the strength you need to persevere. Optional: share one or two with a passage that helps you persevere in that area.
2. Look at a woman in a different life situation. Think about what tribulations she may be facing, and ask God to help you encourage that woman to stand.
Tuesday, April 9, 2013
Tuesday, April 9
Perseverance is long-term. It is endurance through whatever comes. It is an unending commitment to something you believe. It is a decision.
11 Indeed we count them blessed who endure. You have heard of the perseverance of Job and seen the end intended by the Lord—that the Lord is very compassionate and merciful. James 5:11
We can learn a lot by looking at the examples God has given us in the Old Testament. Job, of course, is famous for his perseverance. He persevered when he lost all his worldly possessions and his children, when his wife turned against him, and when his friends let him down. James tells us that we are to learn something from his experience: the Lord is very compassionate and merciful. He has a good end intended for us.
Your assignment for today:
1. Choose an example of perseverance from the Old Testament.
2. Share a lesson we can learn about perseverance from the example you chose.
11 Indeed we count them blessed who endure. You have heard of the perseverance of Job and seen the end intended by the Lord—that the Lord is very compassionate and merciful. James 5:11
We can learn a lot by looking at the examples God has given us in the Old Testament. Job, of course, is famous for his perseverance. He persevered when he lost all his worldly possessions and his children, when his wife turned against him, and when his friends let him down. James tells us that we are to learn something from his experience: the Lord is very compassionate and merciful. He has a good end intended for us.
Your assignment for today:
1. Choose an example of perseverance from the Old Testament.
2. Share a lesson we can learn about perseverance from the example you chose.
Monday, April 8, 2013
Monday, April 8
5 But also for this very reason, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue, to virtue knowledge, 6 to knowledge self-control, to self-control perseverance,
We started with faith. We learned it takes diligence to add to that faith, and we learned we needed to start with moral excellence. As a new Christian (or old) the first thing our faith produces (and continues to produce) is a change in how we talk, dress, respond to others, think, and live. As our lives begin to change we search the Scriptures for knowledge so we can continue to become more godly. Time passes. Sometimes we find this change is hard to keep in place, but we are diligent. And so we begin to develop self-control, sometimes only a bit at first but baby steps are good and lead us toward our goal of godliness. Time passes and we realize the next step is absolutely essential if we are to finish this race we have started. Perseverance.
"Keep on keeping on" is how I think of perseverance. It's a longer version of self-control. Self-control helps in the moment; perseverance must last a life-time. Our example for this week is Hagar. She created a bad situation for herself with her attitude. She then tried to run away from the situation, but God sent her back to face her mistress. She was to spend the next decade living under a harsh mistress. She would have to persevere.
Today's assignment:
1. Find a good definition for perseverance.
2. Read Genesis 16:1-16 and share any thoughts you have about Hagar.
We started with faith. We learned it takes diligence to add to that faith, and we learned we needed to start with moral excellence. As a new Christian (or old) the first thing our faith produces (and continues to produce) is a change in how we talk, dress, respond to others, think, and live. As our lives begin to change we search the Scriptures for knowledge so we can continue to become more godly. Time passes. Sometimes we find this change is hard to keep in place, but we are diligent. And so we begin to develop self-control, sometimes only a bit at first but baby steps are good and lead us toward our goal of godliness. Time passes and we realize the next step is absolutely essential if we are to finish this race we have started. Perseverance.
"Keep on keeping on" is how I think of perseverance. It's a longer version of self-control. Self-control helps in the moment; perseverance must last a life-time. Our example for this week is Hagar. She created a bad situation for herself with her attitude. She then tried to run away from the situation, but God sent her back to face her mistress. She was to spend the next decade living under a harsh mistress. She would have to persevere.
Today's assignment:
1. Find a good definition for perseverance.
2. Read Genesis 16:1-16 and share any thoughts you have about Hagar.
Friday, April 5, 2013
Friday, April 5
Our original question was "What do I do now that I am a Christian?" Some people may be looking for a checklist of things to do, but our Father expects more than that. He wants our heart. So it shouldn't be a surprise that His version of a checklist in 2 Peter has to do with character. It is easy to understand; takes a lifetime to "check off."
Where are you in your life? Single, married, mom, grandma, divorced, widowed, stay-at-home, in the work force... So far we have seen that it starts with faith and then continues with diligently adding virtue, knowledge, and now self-control. Each woman's challenges will look a bit different, but that are all really the same challenge. We are all to become godly in our actions and thoughts, diligently study and pray, and let what we are learning control our actions and thoughts.
With all my dietary challenges, I have found that educating myself about how food affects my body makes eating properly (using self-control) much easier. In fact, it makes eating foods that are bad for me unappetizing. My knowledge gives me self-control.
In our spiritual lives it works the same way. As we diligently add knowledge of God and His Word to our lives we should see our self-control begins to happen somewhat naturally. God's Word is incredibly powerful. When we add prayer to that mix, we can truly say with Paul, "I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength." For me this is incredibly encouraging! He does not ask me to do, not do, or give up anything outside of our (He and me) ability.
There is another way God gives us to help develop this trait - our spiritual family. Being with other Christians in study, prayer, and even social gatherings is an important part of God's plan for us.
Today's assignment:
1. Find a passage that deals with spending time with Christians.
2. Explain how this passage can help us develop self-control.
Where are you in your life? Single, married, mom, grandma, divorced, widowed, stay-at-home, in the work force... So far we have seen that it starts with faith and then continues with diligently adding virtue, knowledge, and now self-control. Each woman's challenges will look a bit different, but that are all really the same challenge. We are all to become godly in our actions and thoughts, diligently study and pray, and let what we are learning control our actions and thoughts.
With all my dietary challenges, I have found that educating myself about how food affects my body makes eating properly (using self-control) much easier. In fact, it makes eating foods that are bad for me unappetizing. My knowledge gives me self-control.
In our spiritual lives it works the same way. As we diligently add knowledge of God and His Word to our lives we should see our self-control begins to happen somewhat naturally. God's Word is incredibly powerful. When we add prayer to that mix, we can truly say with Paul, "I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength." For me this is incredibly encouraging! He does not ask me to do, not do, or give up anything outside of our (He and me) ability.
There is another way God gives us to help develop this trait - our spiritual family. Being with other Christians in study, prayer, and even social gatherings is an important part of God's plan for us.
Today's assignment:
1. Find a passage that deals with spending time with Christians.
2. Explain how this passage can help us develop self-control.
Thursday, April 4, 2013
Thursday, April 4
No discussion of self-control would be complete without looking at what Paul said in Romans 7.
Paul, an apostle of God, trained in the Law by one of the best teachers of his time, wrestled with controlling his flesh. Jesus Himself wrestled with it in the garden of Gethsemane. We should not be surprised when we find this difficult. How did these righteous men overcome their flesh?
Notice Paul's answer to the problem - "through Jesus Christ our Lord!" What does that even mean? He said something else about this: "I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength." How do we access that strength? How did Jesus access the strength He needed in the garden? That's right. Prayer.
Your assignment for today:
1. Share two passages on prayer. They can be examples of people praying or teachings about prayer.
2. Tell how these passages illustrate the important of prayer to self-control.
13 Has then what is good become death to me? Certainly not! But sin, that it might appear sin, was producing death in me through what is good, so that sin through the commandment might become exceedingly sinful. 14 For we know that the law is spiritual, but I am carnal, sold under sin. 15 For what I am doing, I do not understand. For what I will to do, that I do not practice; but what I hate, that I do. 16 If, then, I do what I will not to do, I agree with the law that it is good. 17 But now, it is no longer I who do it, but sin that dwells in me.18 For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh) nothing good dwells; for to will is present with me, but how to perform what is good I do not find. 19 For the good that I will to do, I do not do; but the evil I will not to do, that I practice. 20 Now if I do what I will not to do, it is no longer I who do it, but sin that dwells in me.
21 I find then a law, that evil is present with me, the one who wills to do good. 22 For I delight in the law of God according to the inward man. 23 But I see another law in my members, warring against the law of my mind, and bringing me into captivity to the law of sin which is in my members. 24 O wretched man that I am! Who will deliver me from this body of death? 25 I thank God—through Jesus Christ our Lord!
Paul, an apostle of God, trained in the Law by one of the best teachers of his time, wrestled with controlling his flesh. Jesus Himself wrestled with it in the garden of Gethsemane. We should not be surprised when we find this difficult. How did these righteous men overcome their flesh?
Notice Paul's answer to the problem - "through Jesus Christ our Lord!" What does that even mean? He said something else about this: "I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength." How do we access that strength? How did Jesus access the strength He needed in the garden? That's right. Prayer.
Your assignment for today:
1. Share two passages on prayer. They can be examples of people praying or teachings about prayer.
2. Tell how these passages illustrate the important of prayer to self-control.
Wednesday, April 3, 2013
Wednesday, April 3
Today let's think about things that get in the way of self-control. Some are subtle. Some are obvious. For example:
26 “Be angry, and do not sin”:[b] do not let the sun go down on your wrath, 27 nor give place to the devil. Eph. 4:26
Here is an explicit warning - anger can cause a lack of self-control. You can see a real war between the spirit and flesh when it comes to this characteristic - self-control. With anger, it is an emotional battle. The flesh is so strong! Yet no matter how strongly it demands or pulls, we still have control through God's strength. In this case, the answer is to deal with the issue before the sun goes down. Solve it, don't stuff it. And that takes self-control too! And faith. Do you see how faith is the basis? Do you believe what God says in dealing with anger? Can you give over your control to His? Ultimately self-control is God-control.
Today's assignment: find two passages that deal with things that get in the way of self-control.
26 “Be angry, and do not sin”:[b] do not let the sun go down on your wrath, 27 nor give place to the devil. Eph. 4:26
Here is an explicit warning - anger can cause a lack of self-control. You can see a real war between the spirit and flesh when it comes to this characteristic - self-control. With anger, it is an emotional battle. The flesh is so strong! Yet no matter how strongly it demands or pulls, we still have control through God's strength. In this case, the answer is to deal with the issue before the sun goes down. Solve it, don't stuff it. And that takes self-control too! And faith. Do you see how faith is the basis? Do you believe what God says in dealing with anger? Can you give over your control to His? Ultimately self-control is God-control.
Today's assignment: find two passages that deal with things that get in the way of self-control.
Tuesday, April 2, 2013
Tuesday, April 2
Miriam was a leader among the women of Israel, chosen by God to be a prophetess.
Then Miriam the prophetess, the sister of Aaron, took the timbrel in her hand; and all the women went out after her with timbrels and with dances. Exodus 15:20
And yet she demonstrated a self-control problem. This should both comfort and warn us. The comfort would be in knowing that even a woman who speaks for God can make a mistake and be taken back in when she repents. The warning would be that if a woman who receives revelation directly from God can fall, so can we.
Some people have wills of iron while others seem to have a real problem sticking to a decision (or some might say being stubborn). Yet this characteristic of self-control is a requirement for pleasing God. What is interesting to me is that the self-control we are to add is actually a fruit of the Spirit.
22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law. 24 And those who are Christ’s have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. 25 If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. 26 Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another. Gal. 5
So this kind of self-control isn't something you are born with - that you are naturally good at. This is something that happens as a result of your relationship with God. This is something EVERYONE can have.
Today's assignment: find two passages that talk about how to develop this kind of self-control and share them with the group.
Then Miriam the prophetess, the sister of Aaron, took the timbrel in her hand; and all the women went out after her with timbrels and with dances. Exodus 15:20
And yet she demonstrated a self-control problem. This should both comfort and warn us. The comfort would be in knowing that even a woman who speaks for God can make a mistake and be taken back in when she repents. The warning would be that if a woman who receives revelation directly from God can fall, so can we.
Some people have wills of iron while others seem to have a real problem sticking to a decision (or some might say being stubborn). Yet this characteristic of self-control is a requirement for pleasing God. What is interesting to me is that the self-control we are to add is actually a fruit of the Spirit.
22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law. 24 And those who are Christ’s have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. 25 If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. 26 Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another. Gal. 5
So this kind of self-control isn't something you are born with - that you are naturally good at. This is something that happens as a result of your relationship with God. This is something EVERYONE can have.
Today's assignment: find two passages that talk about how to develop this kind of self-control and share them with the group.
Monday, April 1, 2013
Monday, April 1
Welcome to week five of our ten week study. So far we have looked at the need for diligence as we develop the character traits that will assure us an entrance to a home with God. Then we looked at what faith is and how to build upon the faith we already have. Virtue came next as something to add to that faith. And last week we looked at the kind of knowledge we are to add and how to add it. We have looked at young, single woman acting in faith. We have looked at a widow acting with virtue. We watched as a mother and grandmother used the knowledge they had to raise a godly son.
This week we will examine the character trait of self-control and the example of a godly woman who lost her self-control.
Today's assignment:
1. Define self-control
2. Read Numbers 12:1-15. List anything you think may have contributed to Miriam losing her self-control.
This week we will examine the character trait of self-control and the example of a godly woman who lost her self-control.
Today's assignment:
1. Define self-control
2. Read Numbers 12:1-15. List anything you think may have contributed to Miriam losing her self-control.
Friday, March 29, 2013
Friday, March 29
True knowledge - a characteristic we must add with diligence to our faith and virtue. As I was thinking about what to discuss today diligence came back to mind. I have a problem with continuing diligence. I need motivation to continue doing what I am supposed to do. It gets boring if I let it become something to check off my list of daily chores. So today we are going to find motivation for continuing to add knowledge to our faith. Your assignment is to read Psalm 119 - yep. The WHOLE chapter. As you read you are to write down at least five reasons why I should continue to add true knowledge to my faith, and then tell me what those reasons are. I look forward to your responses!
Thursday, March 28, 2013
Thursday, March 28
So just what kind of knowledge are we supposed to add to our faith and virtue? The Hebrew writer tells us we are supposed to grow past just elementary knowledge.
Therefore, leaving the discussion of the elementary principles of Christ, let us go on to perfection, not laying again the foundation of repentance from dead works and of faith toward God, 2 of the doctrine of baptisms, of laying on of hands, of resurrection of the dead, and of eternal judgment. 3 And this we will[a] do if God permits.
Now that you are a Christian, what kinds of things should you be learning? Today's assignment is to find two passages to share with the group that answer that question.
Therefore, leaving the discussion of the elementary principles of Christ, let us go on to perfection, not laying again the foundation of repentance from dead works and of faith toward God, 2 of the doctrine of baptisms, of laying on of hands, of resurrection of the dead, and of eternal judgment. 3 And this we will[a] do if God permits.
Now that you are a Christian, what kinds of things should you be learning? Today's assignment is to find two passages to share with the group that answer that question.
Wednesday, March 27, 2013
Wednesday, March 27
I'm a little late posting this morning so I hope I haven't kept anyone waiting!
Today we will take a look at how true knowledge should affect you. In other words, truth changes a person. Why do we need to add knowledge to virtue? So we can grow in our faith and in our virtue! When we look at examples in the New Testament, we see that godly people respond to knowledge with obedience. In Acts 2 the people were baptized. In 2 Corinthians we read how the church put away the immoral man after being taught by Paul. When we study or attend Bible classes we are supposed to come away a little different - a little better.
Today your assignment is to choose a topic that you may be struggling with or are interested in or know nothing about and would like to learn. Use a concordance to find references about your topic or word. Keep looking until you learn something new that you can share with the group. This exercise is just one way you might use to grow in knowledge. You may find that it is actually fun!
Today we will take a look at how true knowledge should affect you. In other words, truth changes a person. Why do we need to add knowledge to virtue? So we can grow in our faith and in our virtue! When we look at examples in the New Testament, we see that godly people respond to knowledge with obedience. In Acts 2 the people were baptized. In 2 Corinthians we read how the church put away the immoral man after being taught by Paul. When we study or attend Bible classes we are supposed to come away a little different - a little better.
Today your assignment is to choose a topic that you may be struggling with or are interested in or know nothing about and would like to learn. Use a concordance to find references about your topic or word. Keep looking until you learn something new that you can share with the group. This exercise is just one way you might use to grow in knowledge. You may find that it is actually fun!
Tuesday, March 26, 2013
Tuesday, March 26
Yesterday we saw how knowledge in a mother and grandmother can have a great impact on future generations. Sometimes women forget how great an influence they can have when they are godly! We must never forget that we are very important in God's plan. We have great value.
Today we are going to look at the other side of knowledge - false knowledge, or misused knowledge. Women, especially older women who did not spend their lives in study and application, are known for being quite gullible in their old age. Even the Bible mentions this type of woman:
6 If you instruct the brethren in these things, you will be a good minister of Jesus Christ, nourished in the words of faith and of the good doctrine which you have carefully followed.7 But reject profane and old wives’ fables, and exercise yourself toward godliness. 8 For bodily exercise profits a little, but godliness is profitable for all things, having promise of the life that now is and of that which is to come. 1 Tim. 4:6-8
Old wives' fables, things only old women would believe. What kind of old woman do you want to be? One like Timothy's grandmother, or one who believes profane fables? You are becoming one of those now. You get to choose which one by your actions or lack of action.
Your assignment today is to look for passages that talk about this false kind of knowledge or even an ungodly reaction to true knowledge. Share two of them with the group and give us advice on how to avoid becoming a silly old woman.
Today we are going to look at the other side of knowledge - false knowledge, or misused knowledge. Women, especially older women who did not spend their lives in study and application, are known for being quite gullible in their old age. Even the Bible mentions this type of woman:
6 If you instruct the brethren in these things, you will be a good minister of Jesus Christ, nourished in the words of faith and of the good doctrine which you have carefully followed.7 But reject profane and old wives’ fables, and exercise yourself toward godliness. 8 For bodily exercise profits a little, but godliness is profitable for all things, having promise of the life that now is and of that which is to come. 1 Tim. 4:6-8
Old wives' fables, things only old women would believe. What kind of old woman do you want to be? One like Timothy's grandmother, or one who believes profane fables? You are becoming one of those now. You get to choose which one by your actions or lack of action.
Your assignment today is to look for passages that talk about this false kind of knowledge or even an ungodly reaction to true knowledge. Share two of them with the group and give us advice on how to avoid becoming a silly old woman.
Sunday, March 24, 2013
Monday, March 25
We are already in week four of our ten week study - almost half way through. Good job, ladies!
This week we are going to look at knowledge and the example of Timothy's mother and grandmother. Take a look at 2 Timothy 1:3-5 today. It's a short passage, but gives us some ideas about what mothers and grandmothers are to be doing as faithful Christians. List the things you see here that these women did and how you think they might have qualified themselves to do it.
This week we are going to look at knowledge and the example of Timothy's mother and grandmother. Take a look at 2 Timothy 1:3-5 today. It's a short passage, but gives us some ideas about what mothers and grandmothers are to be doing as faithful Christians. List the things you see here that these women did and how you think they might have qualified themselves to do it.
Friday, March 22, 2013
Friday, March 22
As we finish up this week on virtue, I am thinking about just how big moral excellence is. It affects all areas of our lives - our speech, dress, actions, entertainment, and ultimately our attitudes. Here in Boise, Roger has been reminding us that the real battle takes place between the ears. Our thoughts and attitudes determine our actions (and reactions). This is true for virtue as well. Psalm 15 talks about this (emphasis mine):
Lord, who may abide in Your tabernacle?
Who may dwell in Your holy hill?
Who may dwell in Your holy hill?
2 He who walks uprightly,
And works righteousness,
And speaks the truth in his heart;
3 He who does not backbite with his tongue,
Nor does evil to his neighbor,
Nor does he take up a reproach against his friend;
And works righteousness,
And speaks the truth in his heart;
3 He who does not backbite with his tongue,
Nor does evil to his neighbor,
Nor does he take up a reproach against his friend;
And...
As he thinks in his heart, so is he... Proverbs 23:7a
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Moral excellence will always be challenging. I enjoyed reading Jennifer's post yesterday about women and how they feel powerless. Do you see how that also is a mind issue? The Bible tells us we have unlimited power to do what is good through Jesus:
I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength. Phil. 4:13
So putting the two passages together gives us our assignment for today. Speaking the truth about yourself in your heart can be hard, sometimes. Today take some time to ask God to open your eyes to your own moral excellence challenges. Ask Him for help identifying them and working through them. Then come up with a plan on how to deal with your issue. You don't need to post your issue(s) but it might be nice to generically post your plan to give others ideas if you want. When you have completed the assignment post "done."
Done. I will be putting up verses around the house as a start. Then I will be asking for God's help to overcome. So, if you want to know what my issues are, just come over. hahahaha
Thursday, March 21, 2013
Thursday, March 21
What does purity look like in a woman's life? We have discussed modesty and purity. Every phase of life has its challenges in moral excellence. I think it would be interesting to have a panel discussion with women in every phase to hear their individual challenges and their suggestions for overcoming the challenges.
Today your assignment is to think about what the challenges would be for someone like Ruth in her day, and then again someone like Ruth in our day. What does a virtuous single business woman look like in today's world? And, as always, give me a Scripture or two that you find helpful in working toward adding virtue to your faith.
Today your assignment is to think about what the challenges would be for someone like Ruth in her day, and then again someone like Ruth in our day. What does a virtuous single business woman look like in today's world? And, as always, give me a Scripture or two that you find helpful in working toward adding virtue to your faith.
Wednesday, March 20, 2013
Wednesday, March 20
Yesterday we looked at the importance of modesty in adding virtue to our faith. Today we will look at the other part of Strong's definition: purity. Of course modesty and purity go hand in hand.
What does it mean to be pure? And how do we get there? Think about the process of purifying gold. All the IMpurities must be burned out, and I suppose if I were a hunk of gold that would hurt a bit. I imagine it hurt Ruth a bit to be so pure at times. What does a pure Christian look like? I guess that would be Jesus. What about a pure woman Christian? She would act as Jesus would act in her situation, think like He would think, want what He would want, talk like He would talk... Wouldn't it be great to be truly pure? Are you willing to pay the price to get there?
Today's assignment: Share two passages on purity and tell how you think they apply to Ruth.
What does it mean to be pure? And how do we get there? Think about the process of purifying gold. All the IMpurities must be burned out, and I suppose if I were a hunk of gold that would hurt a bit. I imagine it hurt Ruth a bit to be so pure at times. What does a pure Christian look like? I guess that would be Jesus. What about a pure woman Christian? She would act as Jesus would act in her situation, think like He would think, want what He would want, talk like He would talk... Wouldn't it be great to be truly pure? Are you willing to pay the price to get there?
Today's assignment: Share two passages on purity and tell how you think they apply to Ruth.
Tuesday, March 19, 2013
Tuesday, March 19
So when I went to prepare for today's blog I realized I made a mistake yesterday. I should have chosen Ruth for the virtue character. It actually says she was a virtuous woman in Ruth 3:11. Except for the example woman of Proverbs 31 who didn't actually exist, Ruth is the only woman called virtuous that I know of. She also was a single, working woman; but she was a widow with an older woman in her care.
Strong's defines the word translated "virtue" this way:
1 a virtuous course of thought, feeling and action. 1A virtue, moral goodness. 2 any particular moral excellence, as modesty, purity.
Strong, J. (2001). Enhanced Strong’s Lexicon. Bellingham, WA: Logos Bible Software.
So once we have developed even a small amount of faith, the next step is to put that faith into action by developing moral goodness such as modesty or purity. Modesty is a scarce commodity in today's society. As we head into summer, it once again becomes an issue for ladies young and old. There are many ways to be immodest, but an obvious one is dress. I heard of a study done on young men which showed that anything above the knee was a temptation to them. I haven't been able to document that; however, I have found several sources saying that anything above the knee is unprofessional because it is distracting. Isn't that the same thing? These same sources mention that low necklines and tight fitting clothes do the same thing. (To see for yourself, simply google "professional dress for women.") What the world calls unprofessional, the Bible calls immodest. The world says it's OK to be unprofessional outside of work. But we never leave our profession of being a servant of God.
Today's assignment is to focus on this part of virtue. Find two passages that speak about women being modest or immodest in some way. Then think about Ruth and how your passages would apply to her.
Strong's defines the word translated "virtue" this way:
1 a virtuous course of thought, feeling and action. 1A virtue, moral goodness. 2 any particular moral excellence, as modesty, purity.
Strong, J. (2001). Enhanced Strong’s Lexicon. Bellingham, WA: Logos Bible Software.
So once we have developed even a small amount of faith, the next step is to put that faith into action by developing moral goodness such as modesty or purity. Modesty is a scarce commodity in today's society. As we head into summer, it once again becomes an issue for ladies young and old. There are many ways to be immodest, but an obvious one is dress. I heard of a study done on young men which showed that anything above the knee was a temptation to them. I haven't been able to document that; however, I have found several sources saying that anything above the knee is unprofessional because it is distracting. Isn't that the same thing? These same sources mention that low necklines and tight fitting clothes do the same thing. (To see for yourself, simply google "professional dress for women.") What the world calls unprofessional, the Bible calls immodest. The world says it's OK to be unprofessional outside of work. But we never leave our profession of being a servant of God.
Today's assignment is to focus on this part of virtue. Find two passages that speak about women being modest or immodest in some way. Then think about Ruth and how your passages would apply to her.
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